Do You Think I Had an Orgasm When I Was Nine?

Sun, 11/10/2013 - 10:35
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

First off I would like to say that I watch all of your videos on youtube, I just love how you accept all sexuality and are comfortable with it. I used to be very insecure about my longer labia but after watching your videos and getting educated I feel so much more comfortable and am grateful for what I got!!

I have always been aware of my sexuality and in fact remember having orgasms at around nine or younger, my question is do you think it was really an orgasm at that age, and if it was is that a normal age to have them? all of my friends and sisters have said that they remember having their first ones at around eleven or twelve, but I've been having them from as far back as I can remember, at least I think they were. im aware of what an orgasm is now and am still a virgin, and its how it felt from when I was young.

Thank you again for being so outspoken and helping women in the world realize that sexual awareness is important and beautiful!

Dear C,

It's interesting to note that so many seek whatever is considered "normal" while I'd prefer to discover was could be considered "exceptional." First off, orgasms are so very personal and individual from mild to profound. My childhood memory of a sexual climax was simply the feeling of being "finished" which was nothing like my adult orgasms. Perhaps puberty must happen before orgasms become more meaningful. The importance of childhood masturbation is getting the nerve pathway from clitoris to the pleasure center in our brains functioning.

I'm happy to hear our You Tube clips provide positive information and comfort. Viva la vulva and the almighty clitoris!

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Sun, 11/10/2013 - 23:14

Many women have reported having orgasms even earlier than yours. Liandra Dahl, for instance, has said she was eight. Your experience doesn't appear to be extremely unusual.

Have read girls are

Thu, 11/27/2014 - 08:23
Jeffrey65802 (not verified)

Have read girls are physically capable of orgasms while still in the womb (at 32 weeks according to an oft-cited Italian study,) and certainly from day 1 once they're out. Boys can too but don't typically begin ejaculating until later on.