Hi betty ,
I'm a young 18 year old male who needs to know if my sexual prefrence is a problem. I seem to ne very attracted to older women. It's basically the the cub cougar concept . For some reason older women just seem to attract me alot, but you rarely see a young man with a women who has quite a few years on him together. I would really appreciate if you could make a video on this topic because I belive that it would be a good topic to discuss.
Also is it a problem that girls around my age don't turn me on but older women do ? - thankyou and have a great day
One of my longest lasting affairs was with a much younger man. I see nothing wrong with the cub and cougar dynamic. However, I'm not crazy about the "cougar" label. We are not predators but women who can teach a young man about sex. It makes all the sense in the world when you think about it: What better way for a young guy to learn about sex.
In my e-book Orgasms for Two I go into more detail about what we learned from each other. I see no problem as long as the older person does not become too possessive and is willing to let the younger one move along when the time is right. My young lover and I have remained good friends. He has since gotten married and is very happy with his life.