Due to Disability We're Limited to 2 Sex Positions. Any Resources on the Topic?

Sat, 05/18/2013 - 08:31
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am in a loving and beautiful and sexy marriage with an incredible man who also happens to have a physical disability. He uses a wheelchair and cannot walk, but he has full sensation in his body with the ability to get erect and cum like any other able-bodied man. We are very passionate about each other, but because of his physical limitations, our sex (intercourse) has become repetitive. There are only two positions that are possible for us.

I want to infuse some excitement into our sex life. We do a lot of foreplay, which is great, but I was wondering if you can point me in the direction of some resources where we can learn how to take our intercourse to the next level.


Dear J,

It's nice to know that an able-bodied women enjoys sex with her husband who's in a wheelchair. In my last affair with a young man we ended doing two of our favorite positions although we were both capable of doing many others.

Sometimes pleasure in sex doesn't always have to be based on variety or changing positions. For me just adding hot talk or focusing on a fantasy was my best variety. I have no specific resources for you but since you are asking the question, I'd suggest you find the resources and inform me.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time