I Want to Look Forward to Giving Him a Blow Job Not Dread It

Tue, 03/19/2013 - 17:12
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I would LOVE to give a good blowjob but around three to four minutes into it my jaw begins to hurt so much! I've tried relaxing and no matter how much I relax it still hurts. It's odd to me because I remember that in high school I could give them with no pain and that near the end of high school to now suddenly my jaw hurts to where I have to stop and ask him to use his hands for a little bit until finally I just give in and ask if we can just have regular sex instead because it just hurts too much.

I want to look forward to giving him a blowjob again instead of dreading it. Please help me and tell me if I'm doing something wrong! I really appreciate your time!

Dear V,

Your first big mistake is not shifting from mouth to hand pacing yourself instead of suffering pain to please him. Is he going down on you spending anywhere near the same time you do? Or if you are so committed to taking his load, let him do most of the work and you take over at the end. I suggest you start looking forward to enjoying mutual pleasure by learning how to orgasm during partnersex. That would mean you reach down and stimulate your clitoris while he is fucking you so you can both enjoy having orgasms. Make sure your bith control is in place. Good luck,

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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