Dear Dr Betty
I have written to you before about other things but this one issue has been haunting me for some time. I am 24 and got my first blowjob a few months back. The girl told me that though my penis is long enough, it is thin (I measured- it is 6' long and 4' thick). Since then I have been afraid of sex, especially afraid of showing women my organ and then getting ridiculed by them. From my female friends I know they make fun of guys' penises behind their back and in fact love to brag about their men's cocks if it is a 'big fat cock'.
I have been frantically searching for food and exercises that can make my penis thicker (I am talking of cardio type exercise that improve blood circulation and food like oysters and dark chocolate and berries, I tried jelqing but it is frustrating). I don't know how to get over my shame and fear of having a 4' thin dick. Any help will be much appreciated.
Girls can be very cruel so forget this unfortunate incident. Chances are good that she's been having sexual intercourse for years without ever having an orgasm. The battle between the sexes rages on! The truth is that even a finger feels good inside a vagina when done well. And oralsex is how most women can have an orgasm so become more focused on other aspects of sex with women other than fucking and the size of your dick.
Even with a fat cock, most women still need some form of direct clitoral stimulation. Get my e-book "Orgasms for Two" and learn more about female sexuality so you can develop more advanced sexual skills besides, "sticking it in" and coming with her going without an orgasm.