I Need 10-15 Minutes to Orgasm. My Wife Only Needs 2-3 Minutes. Help

Wed, 01/30/2013 - 09:43
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a male and have problems with sensitivity so it takes me a long time to climax (if I climax at all) ie: 10-15 minutes or more. My wife on the other hand is ready to climax in one or two minutes, then she continues multiple climaxes every 30-60 seconds or so. Problem is she can be wore out from so much pleasure that by the time I'm ready she's begging me to stop! Not to mention I'm normally to tired anyway if we go for too long.

We've tried some ways to slow her down and speed me up, but nothing seems to help. I was wondering if you had any suggestions?

Dear C,

This is a role reversal. It's usually the woman who takes much longer to come. One simple solution would be for her to masturbate before you fuck and have several orgasms in advance of penetration. I would hardly consider a "long time to come" would be 10 or 15 minutes. How about trying something else besides the old in and out? I'll bet you would respond to some nice gentle anal penetration while pumping her pussy. That would speed things up for you.

Or take turns. Do some oral sex or manual sex and knock off a bunch of her orgasms before you begin penetration. C'mon man, get creative and experiment. You are only doing the pro-creative model of sexual intercourse. Time for new positions and sex toys and more communication between the two of you.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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how is this a problem?  your

Thu, 01/31/2013 - 15:46

how is this a problem?  your wife needs to talk to 95% of married women out there lol