I'm in High School & Very Sexual...How Do I Stop Being So Horny?

Mon, 12/10/2012 - 15:44
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi betty,

yes i know you probley dont have many questions from guys but ok heres the problem im a very sexual guy and i get very horny whenever i see a girl i have a crush on and sometimes i cant handle it. also i masterbate alot 1 or 2 times a day! i want to have sexual experiences with a girl i have a crush on, we are thinking about dating how long will i have to wait to have sex with her. also is it ok that i think when girls masterbate regularly its hot. also what in high school is considered a big dick?

And its not all about sex with this girl i really like her and i feel like if i just have sexual experiences with this girl i wont allways feel so horny around her and not ask girls for "pics" anymore. What should i do?

Dear J,

Feeling "horny" or sexually turned-on is a good thing. BUT it doesn't mean you must act on it immediately. You would get more out of masturbation by doing it less and spending more time "edging" or holding off your orgasm. This will also help you learn "come control" so that when you do have partnersex you won't "pop- off" so quickly. So instead of twice a day think in terms of one longer session every other day. My advice is don't dive right into intercourse until you know how to use a condom. Try them out when you're masturbating.

Learn about female genital anatomy and discover the magnificent clitoris. Most girls will not orgasm from penis/vagina sex anyway. You'll come too fast and she won't come at all. However, many girls will fake an orgasm to protect your feelings. Spend some time on D&R discovering all of our sexual information and education. I had great orgasms throughout high school by just "fooling around" which included lots of kissing and manual sex.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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