I Push My Clit Down to Stimulate My G-spot to Come

Sat, 11/10/2012 - 12:28
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi I am 16, and my boyfriend is 19. We are engaged and I have never felt so inlove or close to anyone.

I do have a sexual past but have never had anyone besides myself made me feel even close to orgasm at all except him.

I have a problem though, ever since I was younger I have been masterbating the wrong way. When I was a virgin I was so curious and wanting to know what intercourse felt like so I would push my clit down into my actual vaginal opening and stimulate my g spot WITH my clit.

The feeling is the best feeling I've ever felt in my life, I can orgasm so quickly and easily and it is not painful at all and doesn't leave me sore, but never can I orgasm any other way with out using the bath tub faucet. I feel as if I can come as quickly as any guy with this technique, that's how amazing it feels.

It makes me sad because me and my boyfriend make love, but I can never fully enjoy it as much as he does because if I'm not stimulated one of those two ways, I can not orgasm. It's impossible.

I've sat and tried stimulating my clit alone for 30 minutes to an hour, it feels nice, but never feels good enough to make me come. I've tried on multiple occasions to find a different way of masterbating to feel as good but I can never and just end up doing it in the end.

I feel as if I've ruined myself, because the way masterbate that gets me off can not be done during sex, and I doubt my fiancé will know EXACTLY how to do what I do to myself since it is a very specific technique.

How can I fix myself? I feel as if its too late.

Dear C,

At 16 you can rest assured your sexlife is NOT over but you do need to learn more about how your body functions. When you make the statement like, "I would push my clit down into my actual vaginal opening and stimulate my g spot WITH my clit," I know you do not understand how all the parts of your sex organ work. There's no way you could possibly stimulate your G spot with your clitoris!

So first thing for you is to get out a free standing mirror, a good light source and spend some quality time looking at your vulva. Also look at my drawings of the female genitals and forget your G spot. A large part of the population as well as professionals and scientist do not agree on what, where and how it functions. Once you learn how to masturbate on dry land by stimulating your clitoris then you can do that while your boyfriend penetrates your vagina. Call me old fashioned but 16 is too young to be practicing procreative intercourse unless you want to be a teen mom.

First thing for you to do is change your masturbation style. I'm including links to help get you started.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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i know exactly what youre

Sat, 09/24/2016 - 16:40
Anonymous43009 (not verified)

i know exactly what youre talking about! i am very knowledgeable about the female anatomy and this is the only way i could think to describe it. like i have put two fingers on the top of my clit and curl them in and push 1/2-1 inch inside my vagina and hump my hand. ive been able to come in less then a minute using this method! and i can do it lying on my back or stomach. im not sure if this is what your talking about but this is the first experience ive read about that sounds anywhere close to mine

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