33 year old female....never had an orgasm....
I feel like I'm about to start 'experiencing something' and then bang, my vagina and then my body starts clenching and the sensation 'becomes too much' - like it's hyper sensative and it's not a pleasant thing and I can't continue.
I've read online other people say similar things but never found out what that is all about and how to get past it to the big O?
Perfect example of expecting instant results. Your orgasm is not based on add hot water and stir. You say, "my vagina and then my body starts clenching and the sensation 'becomes too much' - like it's hyper sensitive and it's not a pleasant thing and I can't continue."
That my Darling was your beginning orgasm but because you are expecting THE BIG O, you totally missed the small orgasm that will grow with time and patience. It seems patience is not part of youth these days.
Think of developing your orgasmic potential as a ballet dancer would as she rehearses in front of a mirror to learn the different positions. Sex is about more than lying down and putting a vibrator on your clitoris and then demanding instant results. The following links will guide you if you practice your masturbation skills. It's well worth it.