Been reading on your site about cum control ect...for men lasting longer. Here is what is going on with me: For years I have always done it before I went to bed. Rub one off and then go to sleep. Not using lube or anything but the hand. Then I got a toy- Feels great and I need a new one.
But if I don't do it I have a hard time falling asleep now. Also I am finding a hard time cumming more than one time when I am with a woman. I sort of wear her out and I sometimes fake it. I use a condom so I act like I am cumming. If I wanted to cum again I would have to do it myself. Wondering if I wore out my penis and some of the feeling could be gone. Would it be able to come back or am I too old now?? 38
Any thoughts? Hard to write this all down in a e-mail
My Dear man you are still quite young at 38 and no, you have not worn out your penis. However, we can always improve on our masturbation skills. If you are not circumcised your foreskin acts as a natural lubricant. If you are then using a massage oil will greatly benefit feelings of pleasure. I have no idea what kind of toy you are referring to but I can recommend the Fleshlight. It's not likely you can wear one of them out. A lot of us use a nightly masturbation orgasm to fall asleep.
In fact I recommend it. I think it's thoughtful of you to fake an orgasm for the woman's sake. But there are plenty of other women who would wear you out. If you are interested in developing new orgasms skills I can recommend my protege Eric Amaranth. He does Skype session so you can both see what he's talking about. Eric Amaranth