Can You Really "Think" Off?

Thu, 07/26/2012 - 08:51
Submitted by Betty Dodson

A few months ago I experienced the strangest most awesome thing. I came to the brink of triggering an orgasm with just my mind alone. Meaning, I had no physical stimulation in play! It happened when I was in corpse pose ('resting pose') after finishing a yoga session. I remember that I was very relaxed and breathing deeply through my nose.

Soon I felt a tingly feeling travel to my lower pelvic region. It feels like a sort of energy. I know this has to sound loopy, but it's true! I would inhale, retain the breath for a few seconds, exhale, and the tingly feeling would increase. This feeling started to spread all over my body in jolts. It got to the point where my arms and legs would twitch and tense up. And as it got more intense, the tingly feeling moved from my pelvic muscles to right under the skin. I was literally on the brink. Heart was pounding. But then the phone rang and ruined my moment.

It's gotten to the point now where I can achieve this state by just thinking that 'I want an orgasm' and by focusing my body awareness toward my pelvic area. I guess I'm just in tune with my body/mind connection? I blame yoga. Hahaha!

Have you ever heard of this before? It's fascinating! I'm trying to dig up more information.

Dear G,

What a wonderful experience. Yes, you can blame Yoga, total relaxation and your ability to focus your mind on your bodily sensations. This is similar to having an orgasm when we are sleeping. Complete relaxation is so rare we seldom experience orgasms when we are awake. There are some women who claim they can orgasm by focusing on a sexual fantasy alone.

And the "breathe orgasm" that requires more active breathing with pelvic movement was documented by my friend Barbara Carrellas at Rutgers University recently. While I have occasionally had orgasms while sleeping, it hasn't happened in ages. And as for relaxation, my best bet is after I've had a workout with my vibrator and dildo with a hot fantasy. Call me old fashioned. Enjoy.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Breathe the Breath!

Thu, 07/26/2012 - 10:07
Natasha (not verified)

Yes this can and does happen! regular yoga practice or not, if there is breathe one can do most anything, breathe...but like you Betty I do enjoy a bit of lube and dildo to, and breath, both equally amazing and wonderful!..enjoy it all!....

I have watched a lady on

Thu, 07/26/2012 - 14:13

I have watched a lady on webcam do this several times, but for all I knew she was faking it...i would like to think that it was true so this is good news!

I did date a lady who would cum from doing crunches that was hot!