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My Orgasms Change Constantly - I Think I Have a Crazy Pussy

Fri, 06/22/2012 - 03:11
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

First let me tell u "Hi" and thank u for being around. I discovered u last year and since then Ive been hooked, though unfortunately I dont visit this place as often as Id like to. Now about me.

I'm a 36 yo Romanian woman with a big love for sex. Despite the fact that my sex/love life was very poor - probably according to this shitty society standards - I had the luck to meet a perfect lover - at least erotically - who brought out the woman in me. But all is in the past now. And, since most of the time Im alone, the best partner becomes me. I masturbate a lot because I really have needs and desires which seem to increase more with time and I hope I will be so til the day I croak, lol. Actually my sexuality really exploded in 2008. But this is not the point.

The point is I have a crazy pussy. Literally. Sometimes my clit is bigger, as it happened til recently, which makes my play sessions great and some other times I have troubles in finding it or... keep it under my fingers, if u know what I mean. Of course when I "lose" it, its hell. Why and how does it happen? Its true, many times Im so excited to do it, that my emotions could be to blame for that, but really I felt the same before (and even more) and it all went alrite. What should I do?

Thank u in anticipation

Dear C,

Nice to hear from Romania. It sounds to me like you are doing great! We can't expect our bodies and orgasms to be consistent as everything is always changing. Your periods with hormones waxing and waning, diet, emotional state, work and home situations all affect us positively and also negatively. It's been my experience that no two orgasms are ever exactly alike. Just continue to enjoy yourself without making demands on you clitoris to be consistent. She has a right to her moods so love her just the same.

Happy O's from Dr. Betty

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Crazy pussy, who cares?

Sat, 06/23/2012 - 18:14
Heylin

I also have varying orgasms. Haven't really noticed a change in the size of my clit, it's usually pretty tiny. But just enjoy and cherish yourself. You will always be your own best lover!

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