I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been going out for about 9 months now, but we haven't done that much sexually. But recently we have gotten to being in our undies and kissing and him petting me over the underwear. It feels really good and he seems to quite enjoy doing this. I feel kinda bad because he is trying to do things to me but I'm too nervous to do things back and I don't really know what I can do back and he is always asking if there is anything I want to try (not sure if he means back to him or for him to do to me or both) but I don't know because I've never done any of this sort of sexual thing before.
Any suggestions for me to try to make him feel good? How can I get over my nervousness of touching him back? Also, I have been masturbating since I was 12 and I love doing it and I used to be able to Orgasm but for the last few years nothing I do works and I think this might be putting a damper on my sexual relations with my boyfriend but I'm not sure. Anyways, sorry this goes on but I'm just very frustrated.
Please don't try to read your boyfriends mind. It's much better to just come right out and ask him openly what he would like you to do for him. It will be most likely be similar to what he is doing for you. Just stroke his penis on top of his underwear. Also don't be so focused on pleasing him. Just enjoy what feels good to you and if he's like most guys, he will be happy. As for your masturbation go to *How to Orgasm* and read my easy steps. All the sex information you need is on the website. You just have to spend some time reading what's available.