How Can I NOT Bend My Partner's Penis While I'm on Top?

Thu, 09/08/2011 - 14:33
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty!

I recently am new to sex. I have had it about three times now, but the last time I bent my partner's penis while I was on top. Thankfully I didn't break it, but I left him in pain. I was wondering what my movements should be in order to avoid hurting him again in the future.

Thank you,

Dear D,

I suggest you don't imitate a professional porn star who is pumping up and down fast on a penis while squatting over it! (If that was what you were doing). When you do Cowgirl (woman on top) don't pull back so far that his penis nearly comes out. Take shorter strokes and add additional lube. By the way, a penis wont break as it's not a bone but it does hurt when one gets bent like that. I hope you have already learned how to have orgasms through masturbation. If not, don't leave that out of your repertoire.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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I met a man once who had torn

Mon, 05/14/2012 - 13:09
Caroline69 (not verified)

I met a man once who had torn his penis to almost hanging off during a passionate sex session ..... So I think it must happen... Ouch x