Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
So i have been noticing the past year that after drinking I am having a hard time cumming. I have never had this before?
Overall my penis is a little less senstive? I have starting taking medication for my tryglides and thyroid. Would that have anything to do with it? Also I am a heavy anti flamitory user once in a while because of my foot. Or have I just started to wear my penis out now that I am 37?? I masturbate every other day. I bought a toy - Handy something?? after I divorced 2 years ago What do you think??
Dear M,
At 37 I think you are still a young bull. Just not with a snoot full of booze. Alcohol is a known depressant. Time to consider toking up on the magic herb instead. Or have a drink after you've enjoyed a robust fuck. And yes, all meds will affect your body and that in turn will
affect your sex performance. Consider balancing whatever problem the doctor is prescribing meds for by changing your diet. We truly are what we eat.
Besides your hand with some nice massage oil, the best toy for male masturbation is the Fleshlight. Guys tell me if feels very much like a vagina. So take care of your health and I'd say you're good for many more years to come, and come and come and.....
Dr. Betty
I've noticed something similar
My husband rarely drinks but he had a drink with dinner the other night and had a hard time reaching orgasm, I had to finish him off with a hand job after I was done with him. No more drinking before sex anymore for us! I've noticed that in the 15 years we've been having sex that while his dick doesn't get hard just from seeing me naked anymore (and that's only been in the last couple of years), the very welcome trade off is that it now takes him at least 15 minutes to come during intercourse. So M, there is something to be appreciated about a man in his 30-40's!
Look at your health
At 52, when I casually mentioned erection problems to my older female GP, she properly looked at all my vitals and put me on blood pressure meds, rather than immediately go to Viagra. It made a huge difference. More and more doctors are saying that ED issues are a canary in the mineshaft indications to look at health and especially heart issues. They say high BP is the silent killer. I realize this was just my own situation, but when these problems occur in us older men, IMMEDIATE schedule a full checkup. It can be a health issue.
And practice, practice, practice.
EXCELLENT advice
All great points
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