Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Hi,

I'm sixteen years old. I lost my virginity a year ago, and I had never had any type of orgasm before, during, or after that incident. I haven't had sex since, and I don't plan to until I'm much older and ready to find a partner that will be more mature and committed. However, I do get sexually excited like any normal teenage girl should get. I try to masturbate but I always seem to stop when I feel myself drawing close to an orgasm. I can't help it and I never seem to find the strength to pick it up again and keep going once I've stopped.

I don't know what it is... I think I might even be sort of afraid of it, afraid that it would hurt in some weird way. The result has been a building sexual tension that only gets bigger at every failed attempt. How could I get over this fear? It's really annoying me and please don't tell me to just 'grit my teeth and do it', because I have tried this many, many times (trust me about this one) and it has never worked for me. Do you have any advice?

Dear B,

Instead of gritting your teeth, try breathing out loud, rocking your pelvis, and working your pelvic floor muscle while stimulating your clitoris with some massage oil. Go to "First TIme Orgasm" on the website and read my step by step suggestions. All the info you seek is there for the reading.

Dr. Betty