Hi Dr. Betty!
Can I just first say that I've been a fan of yours for a long time now?! I think you're great!
Here's my problem. For years, I was able to cum quickly. Within 10 minutes. About 8 months ago, I started losing my orgasm more and more often until, I just plain lost the ability. Well, for a little over 6 months, I just couldn't cum. Finally, after much work with my loving (very understanding) boyfriend, I was able to orgasm again. Unfortunately, though, it takes me a good 45 minutes to climax. And that's on a good day! Do you have any suggestions as to what I should do? I feel like I've tried everything and I'm just so frustrated right now!
Thank you so much!
I don't know your age or what kind of stimulation you're using but 45 minutes is not such a long time. I often masturbate for at least an hour for a really good come. How about getting a Magic Wand vibrator. Your boyfriend will appreciate it as much as you will. Go to "First Time Orgasm" on the site and read it a couple of times. Try what I recommend and stop worrying how long it takes you to enjoy yourself.