Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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The challange is as follows; when it comes to actual sex my wife gets numbness inside her vagina which is very painfull to her after a while. Because of this issue, we tend to have a whole lot less sex... Do we have to live with this or are there treatments?

Thanks,
C

Dear C,

That's really not enough information for me to respond. If she is going into menopause, the hormone levels drop and vaginal penetration is painful. This can be helped with hormone replacement. I have an essay on the site about this just look along the left side of the front page for subjects.

You know while vaginal penetration is usually great for men, women rarely come from this type of sex. Spend some time on the website and consider learning more about what women want and need to have orgasms. Like additional lubrication and clitoral stimulation. Since Xmas is coming up, you might consider getting her a Mystic Wand vibrator and some massage oil. And for you, get a Fleshlight that best simulates a real vagina during masturbation. The "actual sex" you are speaking about is old fashioned procreative sex. Time to upgrade your sexual ideas and skills.

Dr. Betty