Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I am 27 and new to masturbating and quite enjoy it. I have had clitoral orgasms from some vibrators I have purchased. I want so badly to have a g spot orgasm and to be able to squirt. I am sick of buying more vibrators hoping the next one will be the one to trigger it. Does the kind of vibrator I purchase really make a difference or am I not spending enough time trying to get there.

I would love you forever if you could contact me back to give me advice. Thanks

Dear D,

I'm not a big fan of G orgasms and squirting. Once you really investigate it, squirting seems more like a parlor trick to impress boyfriends. Several of my girl friends who have this response have said that squirting is not the same as an orgasm while other women say it's the cat's meow. But you have hit the nail on the head when you admit you've been buying sex toys hoping it will give you a squirting G orgasm. Good old commercialism.

You can talk about G spots on TV all you want to but notice how rare it is to hear the word "clitoris" our primary sex organ for pleasure. I've often said that the G spot was a new name for "vaginal orgasms." But I'm prejudiced.

Learning how to do this can be taught. Debra Sundhal is the G expert. Check out her books or DVD's. Lately I've had women asking me how they stop squirting because they're tired of always cleaning up the mess afterward. To each her own.

Dr. Betty