Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I'm transgender. And while I'm about 90% certain that I would have been an utter sex fiend if I were normal, I can't shake the thought that the way I am, I'm completely undesirable to anyone but the occasional fetishist. I am not drawn to the transgender culture, nor am I proud to be the way I am. Even if someone did want me, I'm unsure I would have been able to go through with sex because of the wrongness of my body. I obviously don't enjoy living that way, and I technically know everything people say about accepting who I am and learning to live with it, but I don't believe I can do that just yet. Can you offer any advice?

Dear T,

If I were a transgendered F to M, I'd want to be like Buck Angel and show off my BIG CLIT from taking testosterone. Besides, there is no such thing as "normal" in my book. We are all different and unique. Get Buck's latest porn DVD. It's up to you to learn to love yourself as a man. Be the utter sex fiend you would like to be and start by loving yourself to climax after climax.

Dr. Betty