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How Do I Get My Catholic Girlfriend to Masturbate?

Betty Dodson's picture
Sun, 03/12/2006 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I asked you for advice after your lecture. My roommate, a 28 y.o. Catholic virgin said that masturbation was a sin that she did not practice. You told me you cannot force anyone to do something she does not want to do. But then, you offered up some Great Wisdom! You told me to get some of my girlfriends to come over to our apartment when my roommate was there and talk about what great orgasms we were having with ourselves.

Can't Orgasm with Boyfriend

Betty Dodson's picture
Mon, 07/25/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I have enjoyed reading various articles on your web site and thought I could get a bit of help from you. I am 40 years old and have never had an orgasm during sex with my boyfriend ( I should tell you that I had sex for the first time about a year ago)-and I'm not sure what I can do about it.

I use a vibrator regularly and have for about 15 years, and this seems to be the only way that I am ever going to have an orgasm. I read in one of your other articles about an herbal based cream that would be similar to testosterone that may help with my lack of sexual desire and was wondering if you have any more information regarding this. I'd really appreciate your insight.

At 26, Found Orgasm Because of Sex For One

Betty Dodson's picture
Sat, 06/18/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I was 26 before I ever had an orgasm. I have two children and a husband, and have had a few sex partners, all the while faking orgasm. As a young lady I had a cousin who loved to read romance novels and she turned me on to them. So for years I read these books thinking that was the kind of feeling I was going to have. So I went from man to man looking for that feeling, but never got it. I have always been curious about learning more about my body and I will read anything I can get my hands on.

Will I Ever Pop My Cherry?

Betty Dodson's picture
Tue, 06/14/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a situation I hope you can provide some feedback on. I will be turning 21 here within the month and have never been in any serious relationships nor have I had sex. My dating life is abysmal - I have gone out on dates a few times with several guys throughout the past 5 years but have never actually dated a guy or have become involved with someone. It's very embarrassing to admit this to friends, family, potential boyfriends, etc so I just kinda sidestep the questions.

I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately and I know:

1. I am not gay - I am very attracted to men and though women are beautiful creatures, there is something about a man that hits all the right buttons

Stunted Sexually But Now On My Way

Betty Dodson's picture
Fri, 04/22/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a single female in my late 30's. I consider myself a novice sexually, having only had 2 lovers (both male) in my very recent past. I recall my first conscious orgasm at about 15. It is a very vivid and happy memory. I recall having watched a very romantic, probably PG movie. The scene that stuck in my mind was a couple whispering to one another in a dimly lit bedroom. The scene faded to the sunset outside the window.

Can I Get a STD from Nipple Penis Contact?

Betty Dodson's picture
Sun, 04/17/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr Betty,

I am finishing my last year of university and, due to study costs, have started working in a "rub and tug" massage parlour where I apply myself in oil, massaging and sliding over a male's body before performing hand relief.

I Heart My Hitachi Magic Wand

Betty Dodson's picture
Tue, 04/05/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dearest Betty,

Thank you so much for helping me find the magic wand. I ordered two, as they are one of the most important things in my life. They are being used usually twice a day as I do love my 78 year-old self.

Bathroom Faucet Masturbation Unleashed My Sexuality

Betty Dodson's picture
Wed, 03/16/2005 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I just wanted to tell you how wonderful your site is and that I can't wait for it to come out on the 1st and 15th of every month. I start getting antsy when I know the date is getting close when I get to read more of the storys that your fans write and your expert opinion. I have to admit that some of the stories turn me on, so I usually have my magic wand in hand while I read a long. And after thinking about it for a while I bet there is more than just myself out there who like to play with their pussy's and cocks while reading others experiences. Sooo why not add mine.

I'm A Shameless Nudist Masturbator

Tue, 06/15/2004 - 23:00
Submitted by Anonymous

Hi Betty -

I just wanted to quickly thank you for being the "Championess" of Masturbation and Masturbators like myself. It's wonderful that you supply a candid, tasteful honest resource for those who are perhaps new to the idea of masturbating, and are perhaps a little concerned that they might be weird or something, and need re-assurance that it's Ok, natural, normal and healthy to want to do youself.

I'm a completely shameless, insatiable masturbator, I never pass up an opportunity to enjoy myself. Since I'm also a nudist, I'm doubly fortunate that anytime I become aroused, I can just take matters into my own hands, and enjoy myself without the bother of having to undress. I know of almost nothing that feels as good as rubbing my cock in the sunshine.

Can't Come With a Partner :(

Betty Dodson's picture
Thu, 05/13/2004 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty:

I'm an 18 year-old girl, and have had my sexual experiences, but throughout my sex life, I have NEVER had an orgasm. I have faked them more times than I can count, but have never really had one with a man. I masturbate quite often as I find it the only way to have an orgasm. I just don't get it; I can have one by myself, but never with my boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me?? Will I ever be able to have an orgasm with a man?? Please write back with suggestions etc.