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Love Sucking Myself Off!

Fri, 04/14/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I stumbled over your web site today and am amazed. I thought I was the only one to hold the secret to self-love and heart pounding male masturbation. This is the biggest breath of fresh air I've ever discovered. So, Betty, I sending my everlasting gratitude.

Here are some of my personal experiences. First, I didn't sleep around with all the loose girls in high school. Not that I am bad looking, no. I am quite handsome and was the "catch" of my senior year class. A high achiever and a brain in school, college courses came easily to me. But what came even more easy to me was getting naked after school and work and indulging in loving the beautiful body the Maker gave me.

Girlfriend Can't Orgasm

Thu, 04/13/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am a 66 year old male and in very good health. My problem is that for the last few years I have suffered from impotency. My wife and I have not had sexual relations in over 7 years and I had just about given up hope of ever being able to perform again.

I recently met a lady my age who is also married. We have been seeing each other for several months and both enjoy making love. I generally satisfy her orally and then masturbate to reach a climax. I have tried viagra but with virtually no results.

Shouldn't It Be "The Vulva Monologues"?

Tue, 04/11/2006 - 23:00
Submitted by Anonymous

Hello Dr. Betty,

First of all, I apologize for taking up your time with what must be a frustratingly common type of query for you. My name is Carla and I am finishing up my Masters at the University of Cape Town, South Africa.

I have had some problems finding out the facts behind the politics of your "Bodysex Workshop's" complex inclusion in the "Vagina Monologues" (which is, I believe, still in performance, despite your reservations).

How Do I Get My Catholic Girlfriend to Masturbate?

Sun, 03/12/2006 - 00:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I asked you for advice after your lecture. My roommate, a 28 y.o. Catholic virgin said that masturbation was a sin that she did not practice. You told me you cannot force anyone to do something she does not want to do. But then, you offered up some Great Wisdom! You told me to get some of my girlfriends to come over to our apartment when my roommate was there and talk about what great orgasms we were having with ourselves.

Can't Orgasm with Boyfriend

Mon, 07/25/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I have enjoyed reading various articles on your web site and thought I could get a bit of help from you. I am 40 years old and have never had an orgasm during sex with my boyfriend ( I should tell you that I had sex for the first time about a year ago)-and I'm not sure what I can do about it.

I use a vibrator regularly and have for about 15 years, and this seems to be the only way that I am ever going to have an orgasm. I read in one of your other articles about an herbal based cream that would be similar to testosterone that may help with my lack of sexual desire and was wondering if you have any more information regarding this. I'd really appreciate your insight.

At 26, Found Orgasm Because of Sex For One

Sat, 06/18/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I was 26 before I ever had an orgasm. I have two children and a husband, and have had a few sex partners, all the while faking orgasm. As a young lady I had a cousin who loved to read romance novels and she turned me on to them. So for years I read these books thinking that was the kind of feeling I was going to have. So I went from man to man looking for that feeling, but never got it. I have always been curious about learning more about my body and I will read anything I can get my hands on.

Will I Ever Pop My Cherry?

Tue, 06/14/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a situation I hope you can provide some feedback on. I will be turning 21 here within the month and have never been in any serious relationships nor have I had sex. My dating life is abysmal - I have gone out on dates a few times with several guys throughout the past 5 years but have never actually dated a guy or have become involved with someone. It's very embarrassing to admit this to friends, family, potential boyfriends, etc so I just kinda sidestep the questions.

I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately and I know:

1. I am not gay - I am very attracted to men and though women are beautiful creatures, there is something about a man that hits all the right buttons

Stunted Sexually But Now On My Way

Fri, 04/22/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a single female in my late 30's. I consider myself a novice sexually, having only had 2 lovers (both male) in my very recent past. I recall my first conscious orgasm at about 15. It is a very vivid and happy memory. I recall having watched a very romantic, probably PG movie. The scene that stuck in my mind was a couple whispering to one another in a dimly lit bedroom. The scene faded to the sunset outside the window.

Can I Get a STD from Nipple Penis Contact?

Sun, 04/17/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr Betty,

I am finishing my last year of university and, due to study costs, have started working in a "rub and tug" massage parlour where I apply myself in oil, massaging and sliding over a male's body before performing hand relief.

I Heart My Hitachi Magic Wand

Tue, 04/05/2005 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dearest Betty,

Thank you so much for helping me find the magic wand. I ordered two, as they are one of the most important things in my life. They are being used usually twice a day as I do love my 78 year-old self.