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I have been masturbating on a regular basis. I have a few questions that I hope you can answer. i like to masturbate while looking at images of womens legs in pantyhose and focus on mainly their legs. Is this a good thing? When I do masturbate I masturbate with my penis still covered in my underwear and pants. Im afraid to stroke my
penis with a bare hand?
I am a 31 old female who has never been fully penetrated. I find full penetration is too painful. Is there something wrong with me? I have been to the doctor and nothing physically is wrong with me. I would love to experience true sex. Can you please help me?
i discovered masturbation at a very early age. i can't recall the first time, but i know i did it from a very young age. i'm not sure when the guilt kicked in, but i can't really recall a time i didn't feel guilty. i'm in my 30's now, but ever since i can remember i've had an issue around feeling intensely guilty and almost disgusted with myself after reaching orgasm, particularly after a masturbation orgasm. i've read a lot of literature on getting comfortable with my body, and that fantasies are fine and nothing to be ashamed of, but this seems to be a pretty deeply entrenched and wired issue that i'm finding very challenging to move past. it's got to a point where even if i feel aroused, i'd sometimes rather not masturbate, because i don't want to deal with the feelings of guilt and disapproval that follow.
I've got a very tough question for you regarding my sexuality. From a young age I've always had an interest in my anus. I guess a lot of kids do; its just a matter of degree and duration. My two parents had different opinions about sexuality and their children. My Dad was very closed minded and my Mom very open. My Dad let my Mom take the lead when it came to education regarding our sexuality. During the course of my childhood my mother and I engaged in a handful of what I would call erotic experiences.
Hi, I have a problem...I'm 47 and a lesbian with what seems to be an abnormally high sex drive...I haven't met another woman yet who comes close to wanting it as much as I do. It's gotten to the point that I truly think maybe there's something wrong with me becasue every relationship I have, my partner NEVER wants it half as much as I do. I can masturbate for hours and even then it only just takes the "edge" off. Is it possible that maybe I have too much testosterone in my system?? Every other woman I know can take or leave sex and I want it all the time and therefore stay perpetually frustrated all the time.
What is the best penis ring. Because of cancer surgery now have ED problems.
I am 27 years old, never had an orgasm. I'm married 5 years with 2 kids. Just recently, frustrated with myself and with what I am missing, made it my number 1 priority over the next 5 weeks to work on learning how to have an orgasm through masturbation. I read your articles, plus a few books, and began working with the Magic Wand.
Dear Betty. I have once in my live had an orgasm while having sex. but after a lot of sexual and physical abuse I never had it again. Im married now and my husband has tried everything. When he uses his hand and rub my clitoris I do get a feeling but not that don't stop, go on forever, mind-blowing feeling. And my clitoris hurts aswell after trying for almost a half an hour to just get something! i've also gone for a papsmeer to make sure nothing physically is wrong. how can I get an orgasm again while having sex with my husband?
Several years ago you helped my wife and me get our sex lives back on track, THANK YOU! At age 66, we're having some of the best sex of our lives! :)
The problem now is my emerging bisexuality. As I read somewhere, "I think of myself as bisexual in a purely hedonistic sense - I don't want to 'date' a guy, or 'make love' to another man, but I sure would like to share sexual pleasure with the right man." And that's me, I think. All my life I've enjoyed looking at pictures and videos of erect cocks, and of guys masturbating. I figure I can't be the only one, because in most of the porn I've ever seen, they have the guy withdraw at the end to show his ejaculation, often in exquisite detail, up close and in slow-motion! :)
My question is actually for a friend of mine (I know that sounds lame, but it's true). She experiences pain from intercourse because her vaginal skin (outside labia, actually) tears easily, like several paper cuts. She's tried different soaps (or none at all) and tried different creams and steroids. Have you heard of this before? And if so, what can you suggest?