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Did I Orgasm?

Yes, women ask this question on the site and in Betty's private practice. All orgasms are different. Learn how to know if you had one.  

Can Male Porn Stars Really Ejaculate Across the Room?

Betty,

please settle an argument between my boyfriend and me. We watch and enjoy porn before we have sex a lot. We are both amazed at how much a how far the guys shoot off when they come. My boyfriend says that it is fake and usually not really them coming, I say that it is real and that they are just real studs and that most of them are really well hung which enables them to shoot more and farther. By the way, my boyfriend has never come like that, but he can have multiple comes in one love making sessions, so I'm not complaining.

Lesbian Porn Turns Me On More Than Boyfriend

Dr. Betty,

I've been sexually curious and masturbating since I was about 12. I'm 22 now and just recently learned how to give myself an orgasm. I have a serious boyfriend now and we enjoy sex often; he is patient and giving and wants to give me orgasms. The problem is that he doesn't really excite me or turn me on - I never orgasm with him. The only time I get really aroused these days is when I watch porn (mostly lesbian) and when I am fantasizing by myself.

Is My Vagina Too Loose?

Dear Doctor Betty

I am a very sexual person, and (9 years ago) when i lost my virginity, it literally look weeks and weeks of trying before i was able to properly lose my virginity (and break the hymen) my bf could only insert one finger into me at a time, and i was told i was very tight during intercourse. I gave birth to my son 7 years ago, and (with lack of education) and suffering from Post natal depression and just not caring about myself, i had never heard of Kegel excersizes, so I didnt do them.

I Broke My Clit

We get this question several times a week. No, you can't break your clitoris but there are several things you should know.  And if you need more pointers watch our video series on how to touch your vulva - Manual Skills I and Manual Skills II

Pussy Play


23:15 minutes (26.64 MB)

It all started with our "Manual Skills" shoot (the video is live Manual Skills I & Manual Skills II).  Filming the basics on how to touch your vulva with an all female crew was intoxicating...then we went right into Halloween.  Listen to all the sordid details. 

Can Masturbation Make You Infertile?

Dear Dr Betty,

Last time, when I'am still a young girl, i think around 10 years old (before my menstrual period), i feel curious of my genital area, I used to touch it when I study (my hand maybe dirty), sometimes i even used some brush to clean it and apply some perfume powder on it... Then, around 12 years old, i had a habit of masturbation, i would masturbate 1 to 2 times a day, sometimes even masturbate with some sharp objects... However, I didn't experience any genital area bleeding.

I've Lost My Clitoris

I've lost sensation in my clitoris about a month ago. my boyfriend says my clitoris is not there any more like its hidden and when he does oral on me or i masturbate it takes like 10 to 15 minutes not the usual two minutes like before im 29 years old and i am taking birth control kariva for about three months now so i dont know if thats the reason.

Is It Safe to Go Pantiless?

Apologies if this query is too far off topic but you are one of the few people I feel would give a sensible answer. In the warmer weather I love to wear skirts and dresses without underwear, it's cooling and my own little secret from the outside world. When I mentioned this to my sister she suggested this might lead to minor infections that although not serious I could do without. I tend to wear skirts around knee level so there is no contact with seats etc. I appreciate you are not a medical Doctor (but wondered if you could help?

How to Orgasm

We're shooting our manual series today...how to play with your vulva and give yourself an orgasm. Here's the PG version: