Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Senator Saxby Chambliss describing what will happen if we repeal DADT (don't ask don't tell):

"Alcohol use, adultery, fraternization, and body art," - because straight military personnel don't drink and fornicate. Hasn't he ever watched Military Wives on Lifetime?

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The French government has refused to grant citizenship to a foreign national on the grounds that he forced his wife to wear the full Islamic veil.

Australian researchers have found that neither pregnancy nor motherhood addle a woman's brain. The pregnancy baby brain lapse is a myth motherf*ckers!

I've notice that I likely watch the same amount of porn as a teenage boy. Okay, maybe not that much, but likely more than the average woman. I'm cool with that. If I'm not going to have any dick in me, I guess I can partake in the joy of it being thrust in someone else.

I discovered something new and incredibly hot today. Two words: Glory hole. Sucking and f*cking a random dick and feeling the semen of a stranger fill every penetrable orifice of my body... So f*cking hot and raunchy.

I used to fantasize about sex all the time, ...then often, ......then rarely, ..............then one day I realized it was gone. I lost my libido. I had joined the ranks of those women all ranting "I have no desire for sex." Can't be! The woman who loved sex, loved to seduce, be seduced? No!

I recalled those wonderful stories that kept me sexually "alive." I would fabricate them often from thin air. Sometimes based on a man I glanced from a distance. Never actually met, but somehow clearly held my attention. In the instant I saw his face, not only would my clit go into action but my mind went into overdrive - creating scenario after scenario.

Two of my clients were players in the financial industry. They dressed well, smelled clean, and had sex like they were playing a game of chess. So strategic, so predictable. It was by instinct that I resisted this behavior and, instead, acted as my cat would when it wants some salmon. I stretched out my body and rubbed it against them in an effort to calm them down. Neither were able to cum, which isn't really important to me. But, they were very satisfied. Both of them told me I was worth more than I advertised. And I completely agree. Unfortunately, they can no longer afford me.

Carlin and I would agree with much of what David Ley has said in his book Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them about women's sexual roles changing in the last half of the century. He got it right when he pointed out birth control and financial independence as major contributors to our sexual freedom, but we question the concept of "Insatiable Wives". How about wives with healthy sexual appetites who just naturally enjoy sexual variety much like men do!

How do you think women's roles as sexual beings have changed in the last half of the century?

I watched a video about how women feel about their vulva and undergoing labioplasty and such. I'm pissed the fuck off. There was so much negativity and disconnection. I have NEVER given much thought to how my vulva looks... At all. Why? Because it's completely irrelevant to me. I may sometimes be self conscious about my thighs and my tummy and my arms, but my pussy? Never.

I can't say it's because I'm necessarily "proud" of it, but it's just one of those things that you just can't change. No amount of exercise, toning, healthy dieting, or supplements will make my pussy look any different. Why don't I just love it for what the fuck it is?

Hi!

I was diagnosed about a year ago with herpes simplex 2 virus! I recently started dating someone who knows i have herpes and during our first time together decided not to wear a condom and to perform oral sex without a Dental dam. I have only had that first initial outbreak and nothing ever since, what are his chances of contracting the virus even if i had no signs of an outbreak? Is it safe to keep having unprotected sex?

Inspired by Betty's "Selfloving: Bodysex Group" videos, I decided to follow along with the women and document my own thoughts. I figured it was the least I could do, compared to the bravery of Betty and the other women. Their openness and honesty has helped me, and hopefully my honesty can in turn help someone else.

How I feel about my body:

For the most part I like it. I'm young, thin, in decent shape. I think my breasts are sort of funny-shaped, almost too perky. Like pointy. But I'm not too worried about it because I know they'll droop a little as I age. My mammary ducts are also prominent which I still have some slight embarrassment about, but overall I like my nipples.

Thanks Bonnie for the link:

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible. It so often lights a desire to "Want to do that. Feel that." A want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives. I also intend to present to my readers the reality of sex at any level of sophistication. I'm a sex life consultant. I teach and I do.

James' hands left the tight blue jeans-covered cleft of Jenny's ass and went around to unbutton and unzip her pants. I remember watching the dark blue fabric, almost black in the very low lighting, slip down from her broad, feminine hips, revealing her tanned skin.

Today, one in five women earns more than her boyfriend or husband. And 25% of women earn the same amount, which means they could easily overtake them in the future.

It's just like Helen Fisher predicted in THE FIRST SEX: The Natural Talents of Women and How They are Changing the World.  Women are becoming real economic players with a specialized skill set that, thanks to estrogen, puts us at an advantage in the informational age.  When you have your period and your estrogen is up, your ability to think of a concept and find the perfect word for it is the strongest.  And we better understand the nuances of language and emotion (fuck testosterone).